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[quote=Anonymous]I think it depends.  Does he get paid parental leave or would these days take away from leave he would need once you have the baby.

If he has paid parental leave I would let him go.  If he has minimal leave or has no leave at all I would see if he could go for a long weekend/a couple days.

When we had our first my DH only got 2 weeks paid parental leave, they offered 4 month paid maternity leave at the time (about a year after his company started offering 6 months paid for all parental leave) so he basically banked up all his leave to use when we had our first.  We needed those days and he was able to bank 9 weeks of PTO and then idk how many sick days.  He didn't use it all, but it was nice to have.

BUT if he gets the paid leave let him go.  Honestly your life is going to change and this kind of a trip he really shouldn't be going on once you have a baby. If you have family close it will be fine and just tell him to have his cell on (and get #s for others who are on the trip) in case of an emergency. [/quote]

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