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[quote=Anonymous]I have a sibling and mother like this. I think sibling picked up this dark outlook from my mother. OP's question is a hard one. A good therapist may guide one to this self awareness but there are lots of bad therapists. And one has to be willing to seek out therapy, meaning the first step is to admit there is knot they need help untying. For OP, as it is for my mother and sibling, the dark outlook is a normalized part of their lives. They do not see their own agency in their life - it is all the fault of outside forces. And if there is no drama going on, they will make drama no matter the consequences. I've often thought if they had an acquaintance who trauma dumps on them the way they do to others they might actually self-reflect on how draining it is and how it infects a relationship.[/quote]
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