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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thanks and this is pretty much why woman in these awful relationships stay. I did see a lawyer and she said nothing is guarunteed and to assume I will have to share custody.

I can’t leave them with someone who can easily blow up for the must simple reason-even if it’s something one is not responsible for.

So it looks like I am stuck for the next 9 years, unless someone out there has some miracle solution. For now, we continue to keep busy and away from him, minimize doing things as a family and the 3 of us “run errands” all weekend to minimize our interactions with him. It’s getting beyond exhausting and certainly not healthy for our daughters.

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His anger might go away once you are officially separated. He probably feels trapped now and is lashing out (not justifying his behavior, just pointing out a reason). See a lawyer(s) and prepare, then approach him. [/quote]

This is what happened with my dad. His anger vanished after the divorce. It’s not a guarantee though.

Have you asked him for joint therapy? You should also do therapy because you might be engaging in patterns that make things worse. We all like to think we’re innocent, but it’s simply not true or helpful to think that way. [/quote]

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