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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP here. I am reading just now that you have a rental property. Perfect, he should move there! My STBXH is much happier, too, since we live separately. One of the reasons why I didn't want to divorce so far is because I didn't want to set up a custody schedule, etc. While doing it quietly and unofficially, he will not realize that he spends so little time with the kids. Often men insist on shared custody out of pride, or to stick it to their wives, but have no desire to be a full-time parent 50% of the time, even if they claim otherwise. Good luck![/quote] Men ask for 50 time bc it typically reduces or even negates child support depending on the state (google your jurisdiction, its usually a formula). And he will likely get it unless he is shown to be severally abusive or neglectful (and what Op describes is not even close in the eyes of court professionals). Often even if men are truly abusive, they get a step up therapy plan to 50 time. Op. Stay married and deal [/quote]
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