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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You need to focus on throwing a party for the people who want to be there, not sorting out logistics for one guest or convincing someone who is looking for an excuse not to come. Tell them (calmly, nicely) that you're bummed they can't make it and that you'll miss them and carry on. Try not to hold a grudge, though you don't need to go over and above for them in the future if it doesn't work for you.[/quote] This is correct. You do not want to nail down people who do not, for whatever reason, want to attend. It’s embarrassing. Focus on the people who enthusiastically RSVPd yes. Those are the ones who deserve your attention this time![/quote]
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