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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Do you want to save the marriage?[/quote]
I don't know. It hurts. I would never be able to forgive her. [/quote]

Maybe if you know the reasons forgiveness is possible, if you want it.

I cheated on my husband, for over 10 years with another married man, BUT at no time did I actually ever want to leave my husband.  This was from about year 15 to 25 in our marriage.  My lover gave me attentions my husband never has so I enjoyed that.  And I also loved my husband throughout, but differently.  I won't give all my reasons here, but if my husband had confronted me I would have stopped things immediately as breaking up my family is something I never would have wanted to do.  It would have killed my one child who always broke into tears when the husband and I did fight.  She's in her 30s and would still be devasted if we split.  We've been married long enough now, we rarely fight any more.
Years out now, I miss my lover and we still sometimes message each other on Facebook, but I'm in my 60s and he's 70 and life is just different now.  I joke that even if my husband died tomorrow, i never want to date again...cuz old men are creepy (so are old women...egad that's me!). [/quote]

This is really not what OP needs to hear at the moment.  Seriously read the room.[/quote]

yeah, it's a bunch of men giving their opinion...I'm trying to give an opinion of what a wife may be thinking[/quote]

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