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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I just recently caught my wife of 18 years cheating. She does not know that I know.

The way I found out was by unintentionally overhearing her phone conversation with him. I was driving her car, and once I arrived home and pulled into the garage, her phone, which is synced to her car via Bluetooth, transferred the call to the car's audio system. That's how I heard him speaking. It was clear they are lovers. I turned off the car in under a minute. I doubt she was aware of what had occurred.

When I entered the house, she had already hung up. I asked her what she was up to, and she replied that she was chatting with her mom. What a lie.

This really sucks. We have three teenage daughters in HS. They mean the absolute world to me. That is what is going to hurt the most. I don't want to put them through this and I don't want to lose them. They will be crushed. I literally do everything for them, so I think they would want to live with me if given a choice.

I have reached out to a local divorce lawyer for a consultation. 
I want to confront her so bad, but I have not yet. She keeps asking if I'm ok, and saying that I seem off. Should I hold off until I speak to my lawyer?

I am still processing all of this. Seems like a bad dream.[/quote]

If you are in Virginia and have a disparity in income, consult an attorney and hire a PI to document the affair. You might be able to avoid spousal support if you can prove it with evidence (or leverage a favorable settlement).

Don’t let the marriage get to 20 years or you could be on the hook for lifetime alimony (again, assuming a disparity in income).

This is only pertinent to Virginia (and some other states outside the DMV).[/quote]

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