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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just send her for one night- life is full of things we don’t love. Best to learn that lesson young. [/quote]

Agree, and she might be pleasantly surprised by how it goes. And if not, you just say “oh she enjoyed that sleepover  it in general she prefers her own bed or to be with friends.” A lot easier if she has done it once.

Not buying all the people pleaser pearl-clutchers. 100 percent disagree on those posters. In life, we all do things we are hesitant about.  Builds resiliency and empathy. [/quote]

I agree with this to a point.  There's a huge wide space between being molded into a people pleaser and learning that relationships take work and compromise.
So what is it she doesn't like about grandma's place is it because Grandma is rigid and unkind or is it more like she uses a little too much perfume watches wheel of fortune talked about her summer in Europe in 1970 a million times and asks her to put her phone away?  Is there a way of planning an evening that would be tolerable. I wouldn't force her to go but I would talk about why she doesn't and why getting to know her grandma is worthwhile.[/quote]

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