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Reply to "Guys who do all the cooking — do they expect something in return?"
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[quote=Anonymous]The quid pro quo element here is concerning. In a longterm relationship there are lots and lots and lots of chores. Taking on one doesn't entitle you to anything exceptional - you're going to have to take on many chores, as will she, just to keep the ship afloat. DH does a fair amount of cooking, but what he expects is 1) to get to pick what we eat that night, and 2) to have food to eat. I do 99.5% of the laundry and what I expect is 1) to have clean clothes, and 2) to have a birds eye view of what needs to be replaced for the kids based on rips/tears/stains. Nobody's getting a ticker tape parade or uncomfortable sex act in return for being a grownup.[/quote]
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