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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Why can’t the 2 of you have a discussion before calling in the pros? Write down a detailed description of the problem and ask if the scheduler for advice.  [/quote]

OP. I literally tried that. He said to stop and butt out when I suggested my thoughts about the problem and said it was micromanaging to work together write down notes before he called and that he didn’t need my notes and he was a grown up and he could “make a goddamn phone call.” He also said the scheduler/office person wasn’t going to understand the problem so it was pointless to explain different possibilities. I said that was their entire job and they would be able to think it through if we gave them the info we had.

Anyway, thermostat is fixed and apparently all repair calls are now my responsibility. Which is fine and will work, but at some point DH will have bungled so many things and dumped them on me in his embarrassed fury that he’ll have zero home responsibilities. Which may be the whole point?![/quote]

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