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[quote=Anonymous]The rhythm to the relationship is so important. I want IRL face time and use other communication sparingly. If someone who live locally doesn't want to meet-up in person, not even once a month for an hour, I just assume they aren't available for friendship. I try, try real hard not to read any more into it. My ideal is getting together once a week for an hour or so and both people initiating fairly evenly. For far away friends, I try to visit their area every few years and really like a few long phone calls a year. Mostly, the rhythm is really set by the person who does the least, unfortunately. As long as the other person can accept the pattern. No relationship can survive a very uneven balance of effort.[/quote]
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