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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here again.  I don't understand why a PP called me selfish and immature.  Are you referencing that I don't care that much about marriage?  I'm not against it, it's just not on my radar that much.  I completely understand, however, what other PP's have mentioned regarding marriage and the importance of it for legal rights, benefits, what-if situations, etc., and the point has been driven home.
So, maybe that's where the 'selfish' comment came from, and so in that sense, yes I guess I was being selfish by turning the marriage issue into how I felt, not what would be doing right by my baby.
I thank all the PP's for giving me their stories.  12:08 - We sound very similar, so I thank you also for sharing that with me.
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12:08 again, and I just wanted to say that I hope you end up happy, whatever you decide. I feel grateful that I didn't have to make that decision, though now we face the same thing when thinking about having another. I always imagined being a young mother to at least 2 children, so I'd looove to try to get pregnant again within the year, but knowing our financial situation I just don't know that it's right. but, I don't want to keep putting it off on the hope that we'll end up more secure, because nothing is guaranteed. so....it's tough. but I wanted to tell you what it has been like for us, because my situation is not typical of the common DCUM experience. you can make it work out, no matter how it ends up. good luck. [/quote]

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