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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The problem with your thinking is that you are assuming that everyone involved in your husband's work situation has kids.  I was a childless working adult for almost twenty years and I did get tired of parents (both men and women) taking the attitude (and it was usually only a small subset that did this) that their family needs trump everyone else's.  Sure sometimes we all need personal time and flexibility, but why should I have to work until 7 every night so that you can get home to have dinner with your kids or make a daycare pick up.  I don't care if you want to leave early and then work those extra three hours in the evening, nut I don't want to do 60 hours of work to your 40 if we are going to be paid the same salary. Everybody makes their own choices, but you can't make other people responsible for your choices.  If your husband is routinely leaving early because of sick kids, he should also be routinely staying late to pull his weight. [/quote]

Furthermore, I just have to say that one of the many problems with YOUR thinking is that work can only be done in the office.  It's the 21st century, dude, and we have this amazing advancement called technology that allows me to do my job anywhere.[/quote]

[b]I'm not thinking that work can only be done in the office and I said that one solution is that her husband can work at home to make up the time.[/b]  To the PP who said that it is about eager beavers.  It sometimes isn't.  If there is 100 hours of work a week to be done by two people, then why isn't it reasonable for each person to be expected to do 50 hours regardless of their other obligations?  I don't know what fields you all work in, but I have had professional jobs in several related fields and none of them have had a strict 40 hour a week limit.  There is always bleed over work when you are a professional who earns a salary and doesn't get paid by the hour.  My problem with the OP is that she seems to think that the problem in the workforce is men with SAHWs who have children.  The problem is much bigger than that, especially since many people in the work don't have spouses or children.  I do think that we work too much in this country.  However, if you take a job that has X about of responsibility, you have to be prepared to do X amount of work.  Your other choices are your choices.  [/quote]

Then you are obviously assuming that parents who request time off to take care of a sick child or the like aren't actually doing this.  And you'd be wrong.  So are you just pissed that they are not chained to the office and you are?  Or what?  Because if you are okay with people making up work at home, and they are in fact doing this, then your beef is. . . . .what, exactly?

Thanks, BTW, for being part of the problem I was pointing out.  Should the parents in your office make you feel like an ass when you request time off to take care of a dying parent, or get treatment for cancer, or whatever life throws at you?[/quote]

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