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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thank you all for your advice. I'm confident in our relationship and I just am in no rush to get married. If it happens, great, but I've just never been a wedding/marriage person. As one PP noted, it makes it easier for the guy to pull a "I'm outta here"- I get that, but that wouldn't happen. And if it did, so be it. That being said: In my heart, I want a baby. In my mind, we need to wait. Get my act together and our 'ducks in a row', as they say here on DCUM.[/quote] OP, tip number one: If and when you have a baby, it will no longer be all about you and what you want. To bring a baby into the world in your current situation, and with your "whatever" attitude about what is best for a CHILD is selfish and immature.[/quote]
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