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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP adding a little extra info: he doesn't have a regular doctor. The order was from some online place that you order blood testing from. There was no doctor involved. Thanks for all the input so far. And yes to new and strange behaviors, especially phone use. I just see him texting and being into his phone much more in the last two years or so than before. The fact is, I really don't even care anymore. I don't want to have syphilis, but I would be happy to be done with him. [/quote]
OP, as someone who has btdt, before you do anything else, get your ducks in a row. DO NOT confront him about any of this until you do.

First and foremost, get tested.

Consult a lawyer to see what your options are, and what you can legally do about assets and finances in the interim. Then, start some digging.

If you can, see about accessing his phone records. Track his phone, if you can, on FindMy, or see where he’s been if he has the option to track his location turned on under his Google account. Not sure how far you can take this but your lawyer should be able to tell you.

Make sure you have everything you need before you confront him because he WILL destroy evidence.

Again, I’m so sorry.[/quote]

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