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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Many adults do this as a matter of course, with no cheating and no symptoms of anything.[/b]

He may have cheated.

He may have thought you cheated for some reason.

He may have had symptoms of something even though he did not cheat, and the something may or may not be an STD.

Did your symptoms lead you to get tested? Was the result positive for an STD?

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No, they really don’t. I don’t know anyone who has done this, nor can I figure out why someone would. So please illuminate me? Why would someone in a monogamous marriage do this (especially without symptoms)? Since you know so many people that do this, what is their explanation? Thanks for your help![/quote]

Hi, it's me!

AS I said in an earlier post, I went to the doctor for some dong problems (non-STI related) and they ordered an STI test to be sure... I swore up and down I didn't cheat, but the doc doesn't know if I'm lying and it's their job to find out what's wrong. Also, could've been dormant, or they figured my wife was the cheater and I was about to find out...

Also, maybe the husband thinks the wife IS cheating.

I made a point to tell my wife about the doc wanting the STI, but I could see why a husband would be embarassed at the implications (that his wife is sleeping around on him) or dismissive and doesn't share it. [/quote]

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