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[quote=Anonymous]Your DH either needs to get a lot more involved, or less involved. He can go to the house and walk through with his uncle and see what’s likely to need to be done in the coming years and they can split responsibilities for choosing items and handling purchase and delivery and whatnot. Emergency expenses should always be fine without consultation (replacing a/c in summer, calling a plumber for any issues, etc). Whay your DH should not do is wash his hands of the hands on responsibility and expect to be equally involved in each decision. Why did the uncle have to send all of the summer expenses? Why was he the one to have to consider the upcoming expenses, estimate them, do the leg work of getting things set up? The labor needs to be more equal if your DH wants more say.[/quote]
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