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[quote=Anonymous]This really is about which value is more important to you: having your husband step up and accept more responsibility, or maintaining relationships between your children and their paternal grandparents. Both are important values, but for me the latter would be more important, probably because I have sons myself and want to make sure they grow up appreciating both sides of their family since I’ll be in that boat as a grandparent one day. I would have a sit down with your spouse and really explain to him why both of these are important, and that it is not ok for him to let this slide. He needs to nail down dates with his parents not only out of respect for their role in the kids’ lives, but because he respect you and understands it shouldn’t all be about you doing the work of this. Communication is key.[/quote]
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