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[quote=Anonymous]My DH does stuff like this and I finally said that I would no longer tolerate him outsourcing his thinking to me. It hasn't stopped him completely but I could see the wheels slowly turning and he realized that he was outsourcing the most dull, mundane, but necessary parts of life to me. Just the back-and-forth of communicating his dumb questions took more mental energy and time than if he were to just think through the situation, yet he couldn't see that. I get how you feel, OP- it is really frustrating to be with an otherwise smart person and to see how selectively they apply their intelligence and expect others to pick up the boring, tedious parts of life for them. He's learned way more difficult things in order to sustain a long career, get graduate degrees, etc., but still shamelessly makes the argument that it's too hard to learn or remember.[/quote]
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