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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]
Sounds like what he shared is valid 
Work on it - seek therapy.

Will say .. now that you’re a parent.. You’re  going to be faced with plenty of non perfect situations you absolutely can’t control.  Saddle up. [/quote]

I’m not a parent yet. I’m due next month. I really wanted a vaginal birth but I’m crushed now that we will have a scheduled c-section. I really wanted to avoid a c-section unless it was an emergency.

I know I’m hard to handle and like things the way I do. I think my issues stem from growing up in a dysfunction home with a very critical mom and stepdad who had no issues talking about people ( including me) if I was single for too long, gained weight, not making enough money, etc.[/quote]

Well, about the c section specifically, scheduled c section is an awesome way to give birth. A completely uncomplicated vaginal birth (and there is NO way to predict this would be your situation...) might be slliiiggghtly above, but a scheduled C is great. I've done both and after scheduled C found it to be so miles above my semi complicated vaginal I kinda can't believe we make that a goal. Thr section was so civilized with an easy recovery, id pick that every time. I dont think it's anything to avoid unless you're in the group who wants a ton of kids, but for 2 to 3 its gravy.[/quote]

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