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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I’m finding these takes pretty interesting. In our experience at a local large club, our kid landed on a low team and got so much experience he never would have gotten if he had stayed in just rec (where he was always slowed down in scoring, told to pass, etc.)! And I truly don’t see how he would have hopped onto a team 3 years later against all the kids with 3 years of 3x/week soccer. I’m aware that the girls climate is different than boys, but I really don’t think my kid (boy, lower team, just loves the sport) would have improved nearly as much if he had just stayed in rec and kicked around with a parent v playing many times a week against comparable competition (so much higher play than rec despite being a lower team). If the money is a stretch, I would totally stay rec. But if not, our experience on a low team thoroughly elevated our child’s soccer. I do find these boards are really really focused on top teams and that being the only goal of travel soccer or you are completely wasting your money! Not a lot of people here to discuss the value of playing on a more competitive team than rec, learning from a non-parent coach, learning how to be a teammate, general exercise many days a week, making non-school friends, taking pride in working hard to get better at something, etc. We and others around us find all of that very fulfilling on lower teams! [/quote] healthy take. DMV UMC full of transplants, social strivers, inferiority complexes you name it. Inflicting pain upon their progeny. [/quote]
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