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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just chiming in to say my u11 son was also dropped from his club after 2 years, not due to injury, just told it wasn't the right fit, despite him getting a lot of play time all year and no indication to us of the fit not being right until now. Since this decision I've been paying more attention to practices and coaches and have realized it wasn't the kumbya close knit group i thought. The coaches are kind of jerks. Half the kids are kind of jerks. I was naive to it before because my son was having fun and i just didnt put a lot of thought in to it beyond that. But I think ALL travel teams are a bit toxic. I'm not too sad to be moving on. Your daughter might really enjoy rec or might find another great activity! Good luck.[/quote]

Have you ever considered that your son was a leading jerk and that’s why he got cut? Seems to be a real lack of reflection. No kid getting plenty of time gets cut for “fit” unless the kid is the problem. [/quote]

Well he has ADHD and the coaches clearly find him annoying because he talks and moves a lot, but no he's not a jerk. Kind of the opposite, he gets pushed around because he wants to fit in. He's always encouraging and positive to others on the team. Several parents have told me that he did or said something meaningful to their player. A couple of weeks back some kids ganged up on him and were tossing around his stuff and roasting him. He mentioned it to the coaches and they said "not my problem". In retrospect a lot of little things like that happened over the past 2 years that I ignored or brushed off. It's only now that we are leaving that Im able to admit the toxicity.

And he is a good enough player to start and get more play time than most. Obviously he's not the star. But the coaches use him to help the team win. He's being cut because he's not part of their in crowd.

Your comment is more evidence that this "community" is nuts. Good ridance! [/quote]

If this was a regular occurrence and the coaches knew and replied as you say, you should/need to report the coaches and club to Safesport. Bullying is not ok.[/quote]

Youre in denial if you dont think this is happening on most teams.[/quote]

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