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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Those professionals are not real

divorce attorneys are the worst too [/quote]

I really resent statements like this. Do you think being a divorce attorney is fun? It's so difficult to get clients to be realistic and focus on the kids. Lots of attorneys burn out. And what would you do if there weren't any divorce attorneys left? [/quote]

Divorce attorneys take a clients worst case scenario, validate their worst and emotional perspective— then write it all down and present it to the other side … basically escalating every argument and disagreement.  After they are done the (necessary) parent relationships are badly damaged.  Some people can bounce back from working with attorneys —but many people are scarred on both sides.  They often also instruct you not to talk openly with the other parent, with no guidelines.

Most people need good friends and advisors. Those people are free and do not have incentive to increase their bill every time you run to them. [/quote]

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