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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Don't get married, this marriage won't last.[/quote]

Why would you say that? Sounds crazy to judge that based on this alone.

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Me: I’ve always wanted a fall wedding. Fall is my favorite season and September just seems like a beautiful time to get married. I hate hot weather.

Fiancé: He wants a summer wedding. Fall is okay but he thinks summer will be more beautiful.

We can’t do spring because of his allergies. Neither of us want a winter wedding.

We are getting married in Chicago where we are both from. He wants a June wedding ( so it won’t be too hot) and I want a cooler September wedding.

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DH and I got married in September, without realizing that it's during the school year, when weekend kid activities ramp up. All the guests still came with their kids, which was really nice of them.

So if you can tolerate the heat, perhaps June, after the school year ends, ensures that you can celebrate without giving your guests too much trouble, and that you can also have anniversaries that aren't bogged down in Back to School Nights and first PTA and sport meetings, etc.

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We won’t be having kids at the wedding. At least none under the age or 12. Only exceptions are his nephew who is 4 and will be our ring bearer.

Most of our relatives have older kids. Most of our friends either don’t have kids or have babies who will stay with family during our wedding. [/quote]

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