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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]for me it was over a year ago, when I burst into tears while getting a massage (which my husband had promised to get me, but which I had to buy for myself because he forgot) because I realized it was the first time I'd been touched by a man in over a year.... my DH had rejected sex with me for several years, and I always suspected he might be gay...... It was a pitiful low moment, and I swore at that point to fortify myself, get back to work, and file for divorce once I was financially stable enough...... for me I worked hard at my marriage but it was liek pouring my energt into a black hole, because the issues were unworkable....specifically his addiction issues which he refuses to come clean about, his under/unemployment, verbal abuse toward me, and lack of sexual desire for me....funny that a deep tissue massage would trigger the tipping point, but that was my aha that I deserved better....life is Sooooo much better now that the divorce is underway because there is a light at the end of the tunnel..... good luck to you OP.[/quote]

i'm the double life poster. I can relate to all of this, though I didn't figure it out fast enough to get back to work asap. Glad life is looking up for you!!!!!

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