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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Our kids definitely had some rough times. 
I’m sorry it was like this for yours. The calls are really tough. I ended up visiting twice at those times.

I know you don’t need advice. Reading the parent FB page this year was pretty sad with a number of posts about miserable kids socially. It did make me wonder how many kids struggled socially in high school or were they super happy in high school and now experiencing what many people go through at some point. Some of the parents seemed like their kid had never struggled before.[/quote]

Totally anecdotal, but it seems to me that a very high percentage of the unhappy kids had big friend groups and a very active social life in high school. Particularly if a kid was in the same school pyramid their whole life, they may not have had to make new friends since kindergarten. If they don’t click with their roommate or don’t make the team or get into the sorority they want, there may not be an obvious or easy path to the busy social life that they’re used to. The introverts don’t have very high expectations and just find one or two friends and expand their friend group slowly. [/quote]

My thoughts also. My son has an amazing tight knit group of friends; core group have been friends since kindergarten. Small HS, never had that uncomfortable feeling of having to make new friends. He is so social at home, not so much at college. Hoping things change next year. [/quote]

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