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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't know. I haven't figured this out yet. I've lost about 60lbs (intentionally) and I really do not want to discuss it. I'm not a better person now, I'm the same person. I'm healthier, but that's my business. [/quote] Eh, that's the old fat-you way of thinking. The truth is, it's admirable that you dedicated yourself to getting healthier or even just looking better, and that is inherently interesting to people. And that's ok. Don't feel bitter, like you have to stand up for fat-you. You have the right to feel proud. After losing 120 pounds, I was complaining to a friend about being treated differently and how i was the same person as my heavier self, and she said, "But you're not, though. You're more light-hearted and happy now that you're not ashamed of your weight, and people will naturally be more drawn to that." And i realized she had a point, un-PC as it may be.[/quote]
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