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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op. So the SO in question is really putting on pressure and demanding more time together and more texting from my DC (texting is something they don’t do a lot of and they aren’t busy on social either. This has always been the case). My DC is losing patience with these demands as they are busy with their sport, finals, AP exams, grad coming up, orientation, summer job stuff. The SO also used the L word, which my DC does not reciprocate. I still think DC should suck it up. The SO is a nice person and has been kind to DC. And DC will look like a jerk for dumping before prom. Thoughts? And any tips for how they. And see each other in low pressure environments between now and then (again to be kind). [/quote] Your DC doesn’t need to cave to pressure to jump through hoops to please SO. He (she?) should just keep being himself (herself?). If DC wouldn’t be upset about a breakup, the ball is in SO’s court. SO can accept the relationship they currently have or breakup. Your DC isn’t the one whose needs aren’t being met, so it’s not on DC to change anything. DC should be honest that he (she?) can’t give SO what SO wants. [/quote]
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