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[quote=Anonymous]I agree with you OP. It is one thing for you to feel comfortable with DD's friends brothers in the house--that in and of itself is a hurdle. But the brother's friends over on the same night? NOT COOL. The other mom is not being considerate at all--she shouldn't just assume you'd be fine with all of this. You should call her and tell her that you're sorry--but you're just not comfortable with it because you don't know the brother's friend or their family at all.
SHE WILL SAY: Oh don't worry, he's fine! (I hate when people do this--it is really a put down of you as though your concerns are not valid.) BE STRONG, DO NOT CAVE. She has made this choice for you and she really doesn't have the right to do this. When you entrust your child to a friend's house for a sleep over, ESPECIALLY A GIRL, you should be virtually certain of who will actually be at the house. You should feel comfortable (within reason--I mean you can't background check everyone!) with all of the people that are going to be in the house. If the friend seems like the type that has random males "dropping by" or who has sons who have random "friends" spending the night, that is REALLY NOT A SAFE SITUATION FOR YOUR DAUGHTER.[/quote]

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