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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I get it, OP.

I am in that stage now so I understand. What helps me is that I recognize that it is not about me ( if that makes sense.) They are not saying “ I don’t want to wish my mom a happy birthday, happy Easter” it’s more that they are living their life and whatever holiday/ event is just not that important to them/ on their radar as it is to us.

I am not perfect and can also feel like you at times. And, I have a few friends who are very lucky/ fortunate/ whatever that they have proximity and grown children who have interest in an almost daily relationship. I dont have that but I do have two ds who call me when they want to talk, have something important to share, want advice, etc. so I take that. I know I was a good mom, love them unconditionally, and they know that.

I Have a dear, dear friend who has two children who can’t launch and so I remind myself that if they are off living their lives ( and I am an afterthought, for now) I’ll take it.

They have never turned me down if I am in their town for lunch or dinner, nor for thanksgiving or Christmas so there is that. However, like you, I so miss those wonderful holidays and special moments we made for them.

My hunch is she will understand/ want a closer relationship as she matures. Sending you an Easter hug![/quote]

You sound kind and wise.

I think the fact that you share OP’s stage of life gives you special insight. [/quote]

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