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[quote=Anonymous]My insight is get out now. The insecurities aren’t going to change but the way he handles them and the way you handle them WILL change over time. My STBX was like this, and at 25 I was too young and idealistic to see it for the red flag that it is. Because the insecurities are a part of his problem and his issues, there is nothing that you will ever be able to do that is enough to make him stop feeling them. What happened in my case, is that 20 years later, my inability to make him feel secure, turned into him, finding someone else and knew who would kiss his ass and make the insecurities go away for at least a little while. It didn’t last with her either, but it’s too late, I’m done. And honestly, it feels amazing to be out from under that constant NEED. [/quote]
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