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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Thus was the nail in the coffin for my marriage. Honestly I think I could have lived with knowledge of the affair, but I absolutely could not get over the things he said about me. I left almost 2 years after discovery and have never been happier.[/quote]

I overheard a conversation where he was answering her questions about how fast he thought he could divorce me and reassuring her how she’s the best ever in bed. For me, there was no coming back from that. Eventually, he seemed to realize that maybe things weren’t so glorious with the AP and made some efforts towards reconciliation, but I’ll never touch him again. I can’t unhear that and I’m physically repulsed by him after hearing all the things he said, the complaints about how horrible I am, etc.

I’m not saying you have to follow my lead and divorce, only that it was an insurmountable obstacle for me personally.  Maybe all you can do is give it time and reassess your feelings as you go?  Your feelings are absolutely justified and that’s why you can’t make them go away, but maybe there are other things in the marriage that make it worth it to you to stay and all you can do is heal over time. [/quote]

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