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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP here.

I would explain the no electronics punishment by saying that she should not be seeing these things so young in life, but that later she can decide for herself.

I would say that sex is a natural act between consenting adults. No shame!!!
BUT...
Say that any relationship involving pain or coercion is not normal. That she and anyone else has a right to refuse such advances. 
And that:
that porn is NOT love, and not how sex usually is between two people who love each other. The people on the videos are actors paid for doing all this. It is not real. It is not how she and her friends are expected to behave later.

Tell her it is normal to be scared by the images she has just seen, that you two can talk about it if she wishes.

Hug her.[/quote]

I would also add that since she is curious, she probably needs to be pointed to more informative sources of information.   Scarlet Teen is a great website. The Goofyfoot Guide to Getting It On is a thorough, explicit explanation of sex.  It's used in many sex education courses at the college level. 
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