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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I found this awesome guy who is pretty much everything I’ve wanted and envisioned my husband to be but the sex is lacking. He makes great money, treats me well, our lifestyle and future goals are aligned, we get along super well, and life is just easy with him. I know that you can’t have everything in one partner but I was hoping the sex would be more than just mediocre. Is it worth it to forego great sex for a great man? [/quote]

Is he easy to conversate with? Has good conflict resolution skills? Doesn’t shy away from talks about feelings or difficult topics? Does he advocate for you or others when obviously needed to?

Basically someone passionate and in tune with others’ needs or feelings would also be good at sx. Someone mechanical and zero emotional is check the box about things, and sx.

Yes you can always take the lead in new bedtime adventures BUT, also make sure you are not taking the lead in everything about the relationship (what to do, where to go, how to think about this or that, where to live, to get engaged, etc.). Real men need to take the lead in many aspects of life and relationships.

IOW, i hope the lackluster sx is not the tip of the iceberg of a lackluster partner. [/quote]

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