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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]We had a busy afternoon planned with a kid activity, yard work, and a couple of errands. DH hadn’t been talking to me all morning and finally I asked what was going on. He brought up something I said Tuesday night and said it was too emotional and I needed to stop expecting him to listen to my feelings and he was over it. I was shocked and said wait what, so I deserve the silent treatment for that and why didn’t you say something Tuesday? (Btw, the “too much emotion” thing was me saying that I was upset and worried and something that had happened to one of our kids at school and I asked him for his input on how to deal with it.) He said he was tired of me expecting other people to listen to my feelings and then he brought up feeling annoyed that I made small talk with someone yesterday while we were running errands.

Anyway, [b]after he said all this he walked out of the room. I thought he was going to come back but he didn’t so after 10 minutes I started frantically walking through the house [/b]trying to figure out what was going on.

His phone and car are here but his keys are gone and he left the back gate gaping- the dog was back there but luckily the dog was freaked out and didn’t run away. He’s gone, and has been for 90 minutes.

So DH has literally walked out, I have two kids that need to be in two different places and an afternoon of errands and other stuff, and no way to know what’s going on or how to contact him.[b] The kids are saying “where did daddy go?” And I’m like, “I think he had to go get soemthing.” I don’t even know why I’m protecting him. 
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Assuming he comes back (?!), what tf do I even say? This is crazy, right?[/quote]

It's pretty clear, even from your post, why he can't stand your "emotional" behavior, OP. And what is this "I don't know why I'm protecting him" stuff? Do you not understand that you shouldn't be putting this on your kids? You think you are protecting "him" by not dragging your kids into this?

If his phone and car are there, he's just out for a walk to cool his head by getting away from you. Just manage yourself and the kids; get done what you can.

But yeah, it's crazy. But I'm pretty sure it's you that's making it so. [/quote]

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