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[quote=Anonymous]OP what is going on with your marriage or do you have some anxieties about having people over? Because it sounds like like you are not being honest with yourself or in your post about what the real issue is.  If your DH dumps everything on you and never helps with anything related to your home or cooking and you are resentful about that and don’t want to add another thing to your plate then address that.  Tell him you are happy to have the friend to dinner midweek but you need HELP and then tell him what you need him to do.  Some people feel like their home is too modest or they don’t have nice things or whatever and they don’t want to host people in their home.  If that’s the issue get over it.  Life is short, having people to your home is a way of building connection and teaching your kids how to show hospitality and interest in other people.  All of these things are important, now more than ever.  If it is neither of those things then ask yourself what it is and address it bc frankly it sounds like you are coming up with excuses and they sound quite lame (your kid has sports practice?  That’s your priority when your DH asks you to host a friend he cares about?).  If you have a marriage without resentments and your partner has a friend from out of the country he would like to have over it is not normal or kind to make up reasons why that can’t happen.  Order in, get a bottle of wine and show some interest in someone else for your DH’s sake it not for the sake of  manners.  Geez [/quote]

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