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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Stop blaming your husband for something you did to yourself.[/quote] OP. This is less “omg my xH sucks” and more “WHY do men like him feel the need to tear someone down until there’s nothing left?”[/quote] A man didn’t do this to you though, you did it to yourself. It’s hard to hear but it’s true.[/quote] It's less that OP did it to herself, more that she didn't have boundaries. It happened to me in a relationship before I studied stoicism. The book Let Them is a good place to start. For example, when DH doesn't get his way, he might make passive-aggressive comments or even have a full-on tantrum. Let him. It's still his turn to stay with the kids, so I can have one weekend a year with girlfriends. [/quote]
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