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[quote=Anonymous]I didn't initiate my divorce with Mr. Aesthetic Preferences, but now that we've been separated for 7 months, it's so obvious that I am much better off and he's much worse off. He thought he did soooooo much, but as my sister says, he's the husband and father she knew who did the most for himself and the least for his family. When the kids are with me, they don't think to call or text him because he was always out of the house socializing or doing hobbies on his own. So we are used to it being the three of us. But when they're with him, they want to stop by for a hug or call me to fill me on their day, because we are used to the constant contact.

He'll never realize that I'm the reason his life ran so smoothly or that my absence is why things keep falling apart for him, but I get to observe it nonetheless.

OP, your husband's absence might not be noticed much at all when they're with you. However, you do have to worry about the level of care they'll get at his house. Last week he had no groceries for making lunches. His AP had her children for five days and didn't bathe them. And yes, that's horrifying and outrageous. But does that mean you keep making yourself smaller and smaller and smaller to accommodate him? Only you can decide.[/quote]

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