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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If I waited until I was in the mood we’d probably have sex three times a month. I have sex with my husband 2-3 times a week because he loves it and would literally have sex 2-3 times a day.

He does a lot for me.  It’s really the least I can do ([b]and I usually end up enjoying it anyway[/b]). [/quote]

So this thread is not for you. It's not right to encourage women who REALLY don't want sex into having sex, just "to preserve the relationship", or some other sense of obligation. Sex is not like making a nice meal, or buying a surprise gift, etc. It's invasive and physical, and when you're not in the mood, it can hurt and feel really wrong, in a way that no lubricant can ever compensate for.

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I disagree.  I’m not in the mood a lot of the time but have the mentality of wanting to please my husband and do something for him that only I can provide.  I think there should be a mental reset because guess what, they’re doing a lot they don’t want to also.  That’s marriage.  Do you want to be happy or do you want to be right?[/quote]

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