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[quote=Anonymous]My husband has never been affectionate and my life working full-time, supporting the family, and doing all the parenting made me so resentful. But I still wanted to have a relationship and it did help for us to have sex. For me to not have inhibitions, the times we did were always when we enjoyed a nice time together first, including a glass of wine or cocktail or two beforehand, which just made me more loosened up about sex. He decided a year ago to completely give up alcohol. He was never a big drinker to begin with. He is obsessed with any trend related to health--he is very healthy. But honestly, his quitting completely just bugs me. And he let me know that it bothers him that I usually only have sex if I have had a drink first. So now, neither of us drink at all, and we haven't had sex in at least 6 months. We're basically roommates and I have more resentment toward him than before. I am incredibly bored and lonely. We're in our mid 50s, married for 28 years. So, no help from me here OP, just sharing my experience. [/quote]

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