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[quote=Anonymous]When my husband and I had been hemming and hawing about it, but I felt like I was approaching an age where we needed to make a decision by x date so we sat down to have a focused decision-oriented conversation about it. Ultimately, we decided not to go for a third. He was less for it than I, but willing if I strongly wanted another (I was only 50/50 on it). I think it came down to- I love the idea of a third, but also overwhelmed enough with the combo of 2 kids & all of my work and other responsibilities (parental health issues etc) while trying to maintain some minimal sense of self/boundaries and have a consistent fitness routine. I must say I felt very alone and isolated in this decision- I feel like everyone is either “I want another” or “hell no I’m done!” and people don’t really vocalize the true struggle of indecision and how hard that is.[/quote]
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