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[quote=Anonymous]Once you retain a lawyer, they make the other spouse spend money (the spending begins). Lawyers and their correspondence and answering them is VERY expensive. In real life, men do not like spending money. In fact, the more money a man invests in his position (and answering your position) “the more his heels will be dug in” in the outcome he seeks By controlling the timing of when to engage or not engage a lawyer, you control your spend rate and your spouses spend rate (pssstt… it’s all drawing from the same pot). Divorced people with kids have different calculations. Unless you earn over 300 K and have over 3 Million assets - You need to think about how you spend and who you p** off 18 years [/quote]
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