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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are not a problem. Are you able to help pay for the cost of a nanny? If you can help in that way, great. If you can't, that's okay too. It isn't your responsibility to provide full time childcare. The only way I would feel badly is if you had recently committed to providing childcare and now you are changing your mind.[/quote] OP here: Our kids are in their 30s and 40s and are much wealthier than we are so money is not an issue. They both have significantly higher pressure jobs and both WFH. They want/need a daycare situation. [/quote] Say NO. You can't keep up with what a nanny can do, you're too old. You're not the nanny. They need to hire a nanny, and when nanny calls out or is on vacation, grandma can be a back up. [/quote]
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