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Reply to "For those of you who prioritized "the spark"/attractiveness/sexual chemistry, how have things turned out?"
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[quote=Anonymous]Female here. Incredible spark when we met. My libido really, really lowered after my second kid, not helped by being stuck at home between small children, covid, and the insane cost of babysitters. Sex is mostly a chore now. But it does help when we infrequently get time away and get to try to add a little romance back, and he's the best dad, partner at home, and YouTube-taught handyman I could ask for. Thing is, if I'd married someone for money, my own career would probably be on the back burner, and being able to pursue it was really, really important to me in my mid-20s. If I'd married someone for logical reasons...well, I just wouldn't have? We met in grad school where I was surrounded by smart, decent dudes with stronger earning potential than my husband. But i didn't want to have sex with them. My brain and body were very clear cut on this one, most of them were hard nos and he was the YES. [/quote]
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