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[quote=Anonymous]OP, do what's best for your kids. We got 50/50, but I never made the kid come to me if they didn't want to or were tired. I did not take ex back to court for not paying child support for 13 years (was to be put into 529) or even the health insurance required.
Ex completely backed off because there was nothing to argue about. Your kids will not disown you. They will love you for not continue this battle. They understand. Just be there for them any time they need you.
My second partner also decided to keep our child from me. Some kind of power tripping by both men. I stepped back again, and he even gave me crap for it. He wanted to fight. Fighting would have jeopardize my child's safety and mine. I wanted to sit that one out.
Long story short, first ex stopped fighting and second one hated that I had so much free time now. He wanted some of it too. He went out to party and partied too much. He is no more.
I got both my kids back. They love me and didn't have to go through or be between needless fighting. I just didn't engage at all.
Zero evidence that my kids don't love me. Not only are we together all the time now, but finally they get to see one another.
Don't listen to other people. Do what's best for your kids and you, and get away from toxic. The kids will come to you as soon as they can.
Nobody knows or cares that we had 50/50, but the kid stayed at dad's house. Well, one person did, but his idea was to put me down.  
If you told my kids that their mom abandoned them, they would wonder why anyone would say that. Only they decide that and they haven't. [/quote]

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