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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Clearly he’s always been this way, why is it an issue now when it’s never been before?[/quote]

This is the trouble with marrying a human and not a robot. At 50, I need a much longer lead and warmup time than I did 30 years ago. What OP describes could have been tolerable then but is an absolute no now.

OP, it doesn’t matter if he’s ready to go, if you are not. If he complains, you say; I have told you multiple times what I need.[/quote]

OP here. I can try to stand firm. Won’t lie, I will feel extremely guilty though. [/quote]

Hi fellow people pleaser!

Read this article and see if it’s you:
https://www.drpsychmom.com/people-pleasing-daughters-of-covertly-narcissistic-moms/

“Despite knowing exactly how to take care of others, they have no idea how to take care of themselves, and are extremely uncomfortable putting their needs before anyone else’s.  They feel very guilty when they spend any time on themselves, and are perfectionistic and self-flagellating when they mess up.”
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