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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Clearly he’s always been this way, why is it an issue now when it’s never been before?[/quote]

This is the trouble with marrying a human and not a robot. At 50, I need a much longer lead and warmup time than I did 30 years ago. What OP describes could have been tolerable then but is an absolute no now.

OP, it doesn’t matter if he’s ready to go, if you are not. If he complains, you say; I have told you multiple times what I need.[/quote]

OP here. I can try to stand firm. Won’t lie, I will feel extremely guilty though. [/quote]

Perhaps you’re feeling guilty because it’s not happening as often, and you feel bad about what might be perceived as denying him. Change things up. Tell him you want to have sex every other day for a month. Just plan for it. This creates more opportunities for you to talk with him about what you want. Everyone is on “better behavior” because they know what’s going to happen. There’s more space and incentive to try different things. There isn’t this pressure on everyone to get it exactly right because you know you’ll be doing it again in two days.

It’s worth it to try for a month and see where it takes you. [/quote]

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