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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Clearly he’s always been this way, why is it an issue now when it’s never been before?[/quote]

I am OP. It is an issue now because I am 40,  not 20 and ready to go. I need more time to get worked up, now, more than ever. No, I’m not as wet and ready to go as I am used to. I am aging. I am embracing it but I want him to embrace me and my body too. We used to have sex every other day. We are 40 now and it went to every couple weeks. It’s not unheard of for things to be an issue later on…. [/quote]

OP it's not your age it's him. I am 48 and the only difference (and yes it's a big one) that I noticed about me is that I can no longer ejaculate 3 times in a day and my refractory period takes longer. However I am still as passionate as when I was in my 20s. Foreplay is a mush for me. And I can confidently say that I have perfected the art of eating DW out lol. I mean by the time I make my way to her clit she is already soaking.

She is already soaking in anticipation because she knows I am enthusiastic, she knows I still love her as much as I did when she was younger and much thinner. I didn't understand how much women need to be desired especially as their body change. Our marriage went through a rough patch when we reached our early 40s because while we were still being intimate and having foreplay I wasn't as communicative or enthusiastic about it. I made changes such as sexting, slapping her ass randomly, fingering her unexpectedly etc.....foreplay can and should happen long before the actual PIV. It could be in phases. The idea is to build the anticipation.

The biggest advantage of having a wife over a girlfriend is that there is no taboo, you can do whatever you want assuming you both want it.[/quote]

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