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[quote=Anonymous]I do think divorce is your only option for your H. Is there anything good about him? He sounds awful. As for your sister or uncle...you can't make them into good people. Your mom was so wonderful. My mom had dementia and it nearly broke me, but she was a troubled person and I took care of her most of my life. So when her mind went, I didn't lose my greatest support...it actually simplified things in many ways since I mostly only had to take care of her physical needs rather than her emotional health. It would have been 10x more sad and draining if I missed support from her. But you can't make your sister step up, or your uncle. You can only do what you can do. And let things go. Your mom would probably tell you first, if she could, to drop feeling guilty about her. If you have her somewhere safe, try to let the details go. Visit when you can and take care of YOU. Rooting for you.[/quote]
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