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[quote=Anonymous]Other PP are correct. It's about yourself, not others. You have to mentally detach and give up the idea that you can do everything. Most people are lazy. Most would like to come home to a clean house, have a dinner on the table, kids well-cared for, pets nice and obedient etc. without putting any effort in. At some point, you have to give up the illusion and you'll find out that others will not die when you don't do anything. Like the PP I no longer cook for DH, our yard is a mess, I don't take anyone's calls if I don't want etc. You decide what you can do and do it. Everything else will have to wait or be never done. If someone gets abusive, you contact police or get out. [/quote]
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